when doggies die ?

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09/05/2007 at 15:20
i was just reading This post which made me think weather i want to get another when my one passes away or not.


iv'e been privilidged to look after my buddy ( staffordshire bull terrior ) for just over 16 years now, weve gone everywhere together and
done everything together as i very very rarely leave him alone unless i have to,
but the times getting closer where he will have to go to doggie heaven, which i'm dreading and really dont know how i'll handle it.


a freind said i should get a puppy soon as he goes which would help me not dwell on missing him so much, but i think i'd feel bad about getting another so soon.


loads of you must have lost pets, what did you do when they went ?
09/05/2007 at 15:20
Ate them.

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09/05/2007 at 15:21
im an idiot

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09/05/2007 at 15:22
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Ate them.


From memory it's not good etiquette to take the piss out of loosing a man's best friend guys... closer than family in some cases.

Anyone remember the kebab thread

Can't help I'm afraid RC having never had dogs


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09/05/2007 at 15:23
oh shit.. sorry!!

honestly - i didnt read the whole post...

i'll go delete..

SORRY

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09/05/2007 at 15:25
Thanks dude, I'm sure he'll appreciate it


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09/05/2007 at 15:27
There's no need to feel guilty about getting yourself another little mate when your doggy goes You'll never replace him, but it'll be much easier to have another pup to invest some time and love in to help you move on.
I've not had Dogs myself, I'm more of a cat person, and we lost two of ours within a few months of each other We got another kitten and although he's far from replaced them, he's still a great little cat and kinda helps you remember all the good stuff about having a pet about rather than dwelling on feeling sad

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09/05/2007 at 15:27
I haven't had a dog sine my teens as it would have to be left alone all day. My brother however has always had 2 dogs and has always immediately replaced each one thats died. Always with a different breed too.
Works for him, but the grumpy old bastard is still always inconsolable for days after he looses one.
09/05/2007 at 15:29
From experience I would say don't get another one. But it's a very personal thing, some people seem to get another pet straight away, and reckon it helps. Only you can decide, I'm afraid.

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09/05/2007 at 15:29
I can't help but think that the theory of getting another dog straight away is a bit like suggesting someone get's married as soon as their spouse dies... It may distract you from some of the immediate pain but it's not really a replacement.

You can't replace your dog.
You'll miss it when it dies.

Wait a while before deciding whether or not you'll get another one, and consider getting a different breed.

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09/05/2007 at 15:32
Hi RC18T.

I'm sure all of us here sympathise with what you are going through. Some of us have been through it already. It is difficult to lose your best friend and only time will make it better.


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You can shed tears that he is gone
or you can smile because he has lived.

You can close your eyes and pray that he'll come back
or you can open your eyes and see all he's left.

Your heart can be empty because you can't see him
or you can be full of the love you both shared.

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.

You can remember him and only that he's gone
or you can cherish his memory and let it live on.

You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back
or you can do what he'd want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.


There is no right or wrong answer as to how long you should wait before getting another dog. When you are ready, you'll know.

Don't let anyone tell you that he was only a dog. A dog can be much closer to you than most of your "friends".

I hope it works out.

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09/05/2007 at 15:35
Getting another dog when one has just died often feels wrong, like in some way cheating the old dog's memory by suggesting that another dog will be enough to fill the hole he left behind.

Getting a new dog too soon might be awkward, especially if you're going from a well-behaved old friend to an unruly and difficult pup. The extra workload in training a pup can make you wonder why you bothered getting another dog when he'll never replace the old one.

On the other hand, if you've always had a dog, your life might feel empty without one. It depends on how you cope with the grieving process and how well you fill the time that you would have spend going for walks, playing in the garden, etc., and the little things you don't realise, like when you're watching TV and he comes and lies on your feet, or when you walk into the kitchen and he's always there asleep in his bed.

Every dog is unique, and one can never replace another, but in time you grow to know each dog in its own special way. The grieving process is a perfectly normal human thing, and part of the love/bonding thing that we have projected onto pets as well as family and friends.

I'll never forget the state my old man was in when our German Shepherd died in his sleep one morning, with no warning whatsoever. He couldn't understand why he was getting so upset over "just a dog." But to us, they aren't just dogs, they're people, they have feelings and emotions and special languages that only we can understand.



EDIT: BTW, does your current dog play with your RC18T? Cos my Shepherd is terrified of my Tamiyas


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09/05/2007 at 15:35
When my doggie of 11 yrs passed away, I couldn't even think about "replacing" him. Still can't... and I howled my eyes out. Had him cremated and he lives under my bed, where he used to sleep...

I waited a year, and bought a Parrot. With luck he should out live me



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09/05/2007 at 15:36
fukken parrots... loud or WOT?

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09/05/2007 at 15:37
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I waited a year, and bought a Parrot. With luck he should out live me


Well,your wheels will be no use the parrot,so I want them.
09/05/2007 at 15:41
Hunter wrote
fukken parrots... loud or WOT?


Working form home, I thought he would ease the silence left by 'dog' no longer being here. Ok... so now I have to work in the bedroom much of the day 'cos he doesn't shut up. Today's phrase is

"Justin..come on... quick quick... screeeech -whistle... quack quack .. duck come on..."

Repeat 500 times


Skub wrote
Well,your wheels will be no use the parrot,so I want them.


OK.. When I'm gone.. I'll leave to you.



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09/05/2007 at 15:44
Wreckless Rat wrote

OK.. When I'm gone.. I'll leave to you.



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09/05/2007 at 15:45
Wreckless Rat wrote
"Justin..come on... quick quick... screeeech -whistle... quack quack .. duck come on..."

Repeat 500 times

My mate keeps budgies. Fookin things, they always compete with the ambient noise level. If you're deadly quiet, it'll make a quiet chirping. If you're talking, it'll chirp over you. If you shout louder to hear over its incessant bleeping, it'll just bleep louder to compensate. If you say b*llocks to conversation and put on the music, it'll whitter and twitter and chirp all over the tunes.

And the worst thing?

Every time one of the c*nting things dies, he bloody well replaces it


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09/05/2007 at 15:45
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What's your poison?


Money...give me enough of it .. I'm bound to kill myself somehow..



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09/05/2007 at 15:47
My 14 year old Staff Boxer cross died with her head on my lap four weeks ago.
I cried like a baby. I wrapped her in her blanket from her bed and went out for a drive to a lovely place on the South Downs where we used to walk.
I carried her for about two miles to a pretty remote spot and spent the rest of the day digging a small but deep grave.
Now she rests in a place she used to love going to.
I dont think I stopped bawling till the next day.
My house is SO fucking quiet now...

I cant see myself getting another puppy for a while, but I will one day.
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