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TRDman
17/12/2007 at 12:09
This is probably indicative of a failing in me but I still hold a grudge against someone for something that happened over five years ago. On the occasions that I remember the circumstances, all the old feelings rise to the surface and I usually spend an hour or so grumping around and being annoying to all and sundry.

Obviously I still feel justified in my reasons for holding the grudge but surely by now I should have left it and just got on with things.

Do you have any grudges that you just can't let go of and how do you deal with them?
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17/12/2007 at 12:10
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Hock
17/12/2007 at 12:11
until the death.....probably
Grib
17/12/2007 at 12:11
A good couple of years generally, before I realise they're out of my life, it just doesn't matter any more. Should learn to let go, negative feelings are never healthy

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ZRX Al
17/12/2007 at 12:11
Mine generally last forever.
Taipan
17/12/2007 at 12:12
I don't hold grudges as such. Family and friends - whats said is said and I'll agree to differ. If someone really pisses me off i'm just dismissive of them and don't have owt to do with them. Life really is just too short.

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17/12/2007 at 12:14
till i can really hurt them

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Hunter
17/12/2007 at 12:15
depends onthe offense...

when a flatmate stole from me while i was in hospital with a broken back, i held the grudge for three years,

EVERY time i saw him in the street i went for him...gripped him up by the throat etc etc

why? cos he still owed me a tenner... and refused to acknowledge it

he avoided coming to the town for over two years...

i kept saying to him, give me the tenner and this will all be over...

he did in the end, and ive said thats it and shook his hand...

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waldo
17/12/2007 at 12:15
Let it go-it'll cost you more than it does them-everytime.
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Miss Mini Mofo
17/12/2007 at 12:16
i dont hold grudges, not much point really because the only person it affects is yourself so its not like you actually Achieve anything positive by doing so. deal with it, let it go and move on.

far better for you imho


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Hunter
17/12/2007 at 12:18
waldo wrote
Let it go-it'll cost you more than it does them-everytime.
The best revenge is a successful life.



bullshit...

it cost me nothing... it cost him two years of his social life...

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Carin Sharin
17/12/2007 at 12:21
Let it go Rog, as others have said above the only person it really has any effect on is you :smoke:

(besides it all turned out alright in the end )
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Greenman
17/12/2007 at 12:22
ZRX Al wrote
Mine generally last forever.


Yep, i'm the same.

Dependant on the incident i would hold a grudge all my life.

I can still remember alittle poster of a shark saying "I can forgive but i can never forget" on a wall in a school once, thought that it summed me up quite nicley...
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MyLittleStudPony
17/12/2007 at 12:23
Hunter wrote
depends onthe offense...

when a flatmate stole from me while i was in hospital with a broken back, i held the grudge for three years,

EVERY time i saw him in the street i went for him...gripped him up by the throat etc etc

why? cos he still owed me a tenner... and refused to acknowledge it

he avoided coming to the town for over two years...

i kept saying to him, give me the tenner and this will all be over...

he did in the end, and ive said thats it and shook his hand...


I hope he did owe you a tenner!
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Hunter
17/12/2007 at 12:23
Carin Sharin wrote
Let it go Rog, as others have said above the only person it really has any effect on is you :smoke:

(besides it all turned out alright in the end )


again complete bollox...

you have to stand your ground in this life...

ifsomeone fucks oyu over and you just accept it it makes you look like a pushover

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Hock
17/12/2007 at 12:24
Hunter wrote
bullshit...

it cost me nothing... it cost him two years of his social life...


For a tenner.......f**k me how did you manage without it, I would have done the same......s'alot of cash!
Hunter
17/12/2007 at 12:25
MyLittleStudPony wrote
I hope he did owe you a tenner!


he robbed 500 out of my bank to pay his coke debts cos he heard i was paralysed...

i got released form hospital 6 days later... unfortunately for him..

he hid in the kitchen when i arrived hiom, i lost it so badly i tore the kitchen door completely off the hinges getting to him...



anyways he eventually paid so as far as im concerned thats the end of hte matter

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DefTrap
17/12/2007 at 12:33
It depends on whether they've got me bang to rights. I hate being caught out.
D.S.
17/12/2007 at 12:36
A grudge is for life, not just for Christmas!
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weeksy
17/12/2007 at 12:38
Depends how you look at it and how important the situation is.

I don't speak to my old man because he walked out on me and mum, i never will forgive him and hold it against him forever.

People who fuck me over something trivial will be dismissed and not spoken to again, but that's more the fact i won't call or see them, not that i'm holding a grudge about it and it keeping me awake at nights.
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