Hi people,
Always been a lurker for the last couple of years but thought i would register and start to talk to some fellow riders, but unfortunatly this is my first post.
I'm hoping to get some advice or wise words of wisdom from others who have been through the same as i seem to be at lost roads shall we say.
I will explain but please bare with me as this was a while ago now and memory is not too good, could be the stress who knows.
Got taken off my bike back in early 2004 by a taxi driver who jumped a red light, i hit the side at approx 20/30mph and flew over the bonnet and down the road.
Luckily big built chap i managed to get away without breaking anything but i now have several problems with my neck and lower back and have been confirmed many time with MRI Scans which i have had enough off.
I have suffered a severe whiplash injury as well which has greatly disrupted my life, even nearly 5 years on i still struggle with things like watching TV or being a great reader struggle reading for more than 10 minutes. I could write a list but trying to keep it all short. I also suffer severe migrains and sickess on average of 2 times a week or they last for 2 1/2 days. If i havnt got a migrain i have this constant fuzzyness in my head really hard to describe.
NHS keep me waiting every 3/6 months for treatment which is a nightmare!
Apart from being hounded and under survaliance my life has and still continues to be a missery, and i have been very depressed and stressed out to the point of self harming and suicidle thoughts thanks to all the above.
Life has changed from having everything to losing all, which included moving back to parents which was the last resort and loosing my trade as a self employed HGV mechanic which i will never return to due to my lower back problems.
Over the last 6 months have really been trying to get my life back on track with the help of my lovely partner and wife to be, just trying to get some normality back in my life and hopefully returning to a volunteer job to give me that much needed boost.
My solicitor seems to have given up and now seem useless and asking me to consider making a Part 36 offer of £39k.
Don't seem bad you may say but after paying back benefits which i have been on to help me live this leaves £16k, then theres debts to pay off which then leaves me with £3k.
I really feel like telling my solicitor to stuff it all, i've been through hell for the last nearly 5 years, or i may even take my case to another solicitor. I really dont know which way to turn.
Does anyone still think £39k is a fair amount as i simply dont have a clue?
I might let is all goto court.
I might of missed a few things, but if i remember i will let you all know, sorry memory isnt too great since the accident. I dont know if this is purely stress or the bang to the head, no one seems to know.
If anyone has been in the same boat or have advise i would be really grateful from you fellow bikers.
Many thanks for listening.